Derek Flint - Counselling & Psychotherapy

If you've ever found yourself asking, "Why can't I stop watching porn?", you're far from alone. Many people genuinely want to change their pornography use but find themselves returning to it despite promising themselves they won't. This blog explores why compulsive porn use can feel so difficult to stop, what purpose it may be serving, and how understanding the behaviour is often the first step towards meaningful change.

Financial domination, often referred to as findom, is one of the fastest-growing topics discussed within online communities, yet many people struggle to talk openly about it. Some people experience findom as an occasional fantasy or consensual part of their sexuality. For others, it gradually becomes something that feels difficult to control. They may spend more money than intended, hide transactions from partners, accumulate debt, or find themselves repeatedly returning to f

Looking for help to quit findom? Learn why financial domination can become 'addictive', what drives the behaviour, and how therapy can support findom recovery. Like all sexual activity findom can be an enjoyable experience but it can also get out of control. When the compulsive nature of it takes over or consequences start to mount, it can become overwhelming and stopping can seem incredible hard. This blog explores how to quit findom and get away from the bits that cause dis